Friday, January 8, 2010

ANOTHER CASE OF CHAT SEX ADDICTION

While doing our project work, we got an interesting phone call from one of the major working women hostel . Matron want us to interfere into the personal life of one of her relative girl who is staying with Matron in that hostel. She is working as a call centre employee and her husband working out of India. Being highly relegious, she always afraid to go to Pubs and Night clubs which is often usual among call center employees.

She always wish to stay with her husband, but one the second month of her marriage he left India and able to visit her once in every 12 months. Loneliness was slowly creeping in her.
Once during her duty hours, she got a male voice calling from nearby town asking about some rare books in her shopping cart. She collected his phone number and that was the beginning of a rare relationship discussing about books at first. Both of them started chatting through Gmail. After coming from duty, she go directly to her Pc and mostly he will be there online, waiting for her. The funny thing is that they never used cam , as there was an agreement between them not to use Webcam, but only voice chat.
As per our analysis, the initiative was not from her side. He started discussing about some books like " Lady Chatterley's Lover". Such discussions slowly deviated into the commencement of sex chat. She felt much releif when she do this with that unknown guy. A sort of escapism from the loneliness.

In the beginning it was once a week, later it grew as an everyday chat. She close the door from inside and off clothes while chatting with him. He teach her different ways of getting pleasure out of chat. She became a regular purchaser of banana from the market.




At first, Matron was not watching such changes in  her. But when she noticed it, a rash interrogation brought out all the secrets. The same time , our questinaire  of Project , reached her hands through Event Management Company . Matron call the mobile number of mine immediately and I came to know about all these.
Now our question was there, how to escape her from this addiction of Chat, because closure of such a habit is very important before she visit her hubby next month.

WHAT WE DID ON HER?
WHETHER WE ARE SUCCESSFULL IN PREVENTING HER ADDICTION......wait for next post for all details

Saturday, January 2, 2010

WHY PEOPLE LIKE FLIRTING CHAT IN INTERNET OR PHONE

After my fashion show, I returned to my college to complete the project work. Dr Ayesha was upset on my absense for such a long term. Other three girls of my batch sat together and found a subject for the project work.

" PSYCHOLOGY BEHIND FLIRTING CHAT IN INTERNET OR PHONE"

We did this project work in a wide manner and decided to complete in three weeks. The modus operandi was quite simple, preparing 20 questions and giving it to targetted groups. Our target groups were

1. College Students ( Aged 19-24 )
2. School Students ( Aged 15-19 )
3. House wives ( Aged 25 to 45 )
4. Executives ( Aged 23 to 43 )
5. Old Men ( Aged above 50 ), those who are using internet atleast 1 hour a day.


We selected 20-50 persons from each group. It was not easy for us to arrange all these and so we demand the help of an "Event Management Company" to distribute the questions and to collect the answers back with extreme secrecy.

The results were very strange to believe.

  • 80 % of college students out of which 60% male and 40% female students do sex chat
  • 20 % of school students do sex chat and others don't know what is that
  • 90% of Housewives do sex chat out of which only 40% below age 30 are doing sex chat in internet
  • 25% of Executives do sex chat
  • 95% of Old men do sex chat 


Various techniques used by people to do sex chat was quite interesting. College students do by mobile, and internet. Girls like to do it mainly with their boy friends where as boys like to do with anyone mostly in night time. School students do such chat with colleagues. House wives depend only on internet, especially during afternoon time, when husband is away from home.Executives usually depend on phone, trying to culture it out in clients. Old men depends only in internet, 99% of them doesn't use voice chat.

We sorted out the reasons behind their fun in doing sex chat

  • Girls feel it safe and secure( No fear of pregnancy, and HIV)
  • Boys feel that will help to make more intimacy in relations
  • Some just do as flirting
  • Housewives, thinking about variety, and safety in chats
  • Executives for fun only
  • Old men trying to wipe out loneliness and sediment sexual feelings inside.
Our conclusion of the report was to BAN CHAT ROOMS IN INTERNET to avoid such an open vulgarism.