Sunday, January 16, 2011

Using Sex Appeal

Article Summary: Your sex appeal can be used to get someone into your life that you want, and charm other people into helping you out in life. Sex appeal is a valuable tool in life as it not only wins you sexual relationships but also the attraction of everyone in your life, because you are such a charming person.

We've all got sex appeal inside us whether we know it or not. And we can use it to our advantage to help us win over the opposite sex for relationships and other things we want. Even someone who has tons of sex appeal can win over the same gender with it. Sexual appeal is an instinctual desire that we can't ignore. If we find some worthy of our attention we will give it. So how can you use your sex appeal to your advantage? Well first you have to know where it is! 

The first part of sex appeal is your looks. We get caught up thinking that the sexiest people look like Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie, but the truth is that everyone is attracted to different looks. This means that no matter what you look like there is someone out there who will find you attractive! So with that said you may think that only a few people will be charmed by your sex appeal because you are their type but that's not always the case as your appeal goes much deeper than that. 

As long as you are clean-cut and take care of yourself you will be doing all you can for your looks, and there is not much more you can do about the physical aspect of yourself. Besides, sex appeal has more to do with personal qualities than looks. 

Your personal qualities are the biggest part of your charm. Confidence in your abilities to please the opposite sex in and out of bed is what other people will notice right away. Confidence in the way you talk, walk, and everything you say is the biggest trait you can have to sway people with your sex appeal. You know how there are some people who are just hard to resist? Those people have confidence in themselves and know they have what it takes to make people like them. Their confidence oozes out of them. 

Real confidence in yourself also brings about happiness in your life because you feel good about yourself. This makes you a joy to be around which of course is another huge quality that screams sex appeal. So don't pretend to be confident as that will not come across as sexy and real, but instead find your real confidence and feel good about yourself naturally, and you will find that it will work wonders. 

Once you have everything going for you, you will be able to pick up the opposite sex without a problem. You will be able to sway the opposite sex, and your own sex, into helping you achieve things you want in life. Your charm will win them over almost every time and you will find that people are willing to break the rules a little just to make your life easier. 

People will be naturally attracted and interested in you as a person, and that is good for all kinds of relationships, not just sexual relationships. Use your sex appeal to make your life better and make other people feel good about themselves and that will be the biggest payoff you can get.

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Bellaisa Filippis
Bellaisa is the owner of the Relationship Circle. Check out the Relationship Circle's new blog at